• GetOffMyLan@programming.dev
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    The point of a photo is to remember something you did. Not generally the photo itself.

    Resharing someone else’s photo is not even similar to going somewhere and capturing the moment.

    When you’re old those photos might be all you have left.

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      The point of a photo is to remember something you did. Not generally the photo itself.

      Why then share it? I don’t share the (very few) photos I take.

      Resharing someone else’s photo is not even similar to going somewhere and capturing the moment.

      I should have added a ‘\s’ to my sentence ;)

      When you’re old those photos might be all you have left.

      Sure, memories are priceless and they may differ for everyone. I mean, I’m old(er) and I much prefer words to images myself (I’ve been journaling for almost 50 years). Also, I don’t care to remember seing the Eiffel Tower (even less so since I live in Paris, which is a privileged place to observe tourists), or NY, or Bangkok, or any other place in particular. I wish to remember people.

      Note that I simply answered the OP question (what is the craziest thing you have seen a tourist do). I may be wrong, like I hinted to in my previous comment, but to this still is the most mind boggling stupid thing I can see people do over and over again every singled day… the moment I pass in one of those few Parisian streets full of tourists ;)

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        The craziest thing you’ve seen is people behaving the same as a photographer who came before then? You sound mad about other people being excited that they finally saved enough and took an opportunity to enjoy themselves. People go to places to see things because that’s what tourism is. Do you not try to do things yourself because others have done it before you? Did you know that tour groups are a business formed to do exactly what you think is crazy?

        There is a remarkable detachment between you and the people who are trying to have fun.

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          The craziest thing you’ve seen is people behaving the same as a photographer who came before then? You sound mad about other people being excited that they finally saved enough and took an opportunity to enjoy themselves. People go to places to see things because that’s what tourism is. Do you not try to do things yourself because others have done it before you? Did you know that tour groups are a business formed to do exactly what you think is crazy?

          There is a remarkable detachment between you and the people who are trying to have fun.

          Let me recap your reply:

          Do you not try

          Did you know

          There is a remarkable detachment between you and the people who are trying to have fun

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          You sound mad about other people

          Pardon me, but who exactly sounds mad, here?

          It’s possible I’m over-interpreting the way you answered and maybe, like me, English is not you native language and you may not master it enough to express all the nuances of your deep and rich opinions and thoughts. It is such a pain, it happens to me all the time too.

          So, to make it clear, I answered a question without worrying much about pleasing anyone, yourself included hope you won’t mind me saying so. And I answered what I thought was the craziest thing I see tourists do.

          What I never tried to answer is this question you pulled out of the fleshy sitting part of your anatomy:

          The craziest thing you’ve seen is people behaving the same as a photographer who came before then?

          To put it politely, it’s quite unfair to change the question and then criticize my supposed answer to it. What was it you were saying? Oh, yeah: there is a remarkable detachment between you and the actual facts.

          So, once again, I was only talking about tourists doing tourtisty things, and nothing else. I was not talking about people in general or crazy things in general. But since you asked, let me tell you you probably don’t want to know the craziest shit I’ve seen people do. And, no, they were not mere tourists behaving like mere tourists. Unless the tourist you know have a tendency to end up in jail, too?

          That said, I’m grateful for the time you spend trying to help me realize the absolute dick I was by daring sharing my unflattering opinions on tourists behaving like tourists. Allow me to oblige in return. I insist.

          1. To recap, all I did is express my personal unflattering opinion on a question about tourists, right?
          2. To which you answered by expressing your own and rather unflattering opinion on the kind of person I must be, right?

          But then, if 1. makes a dick out of me, what does 2. make out of you? Right.

          So, to summarize, it seems we both have diverging personal and unflattering opinions. That’s great! I am always so happy to meet people willing to discuss without anger or being dismissive to one another, even more so when those two persons have slightly diverging opinions on very delicate topics.

          Once again, from one dick to another, thank you very much for what I consider a very enriching discussion.

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        People share photos to seek validation that they are interesting and are doing interesting things. Is this very classy? Not really, but it’s true. It’ll always be true. I don’t really think there’s much point in judging people too heavily for it. We’re all just apes enslaved to whatever acts cause our body to release good chemicals.

        I think there is a point at which it may be unhealthy if someone is only doing things for validation without taking any personal satisfaction at all, and tourism especially should be done respectfully and after a certain amount of tourists are in an area I do think it defeats the beauty, but I think deep down we all know why tourists are a thing, and why sharing pictures online is a thing.