I just did this on a website that said my Simplelogin alias isn’t allowed for signup, but changed it successfully after the fact from a disposable email.

  • hddsx@lemmy.ca
    14·
    10 days ago

    I just have my own domain (and mail server). If you don’t want to host a mail server (and you shouldn’t), you can get a mail forwarding service to forward all *@domain.tld emails to your email

    • fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.comEnglish
      16·
      10 days ago

      This is a problem in the above contexts. Services have started blocking signups with:

      “Please use a popular email provider like Gmail or…”

      Had this happen on my custom domain recently. Chose to not use that service, as others should do, too.

      • hddsx@lemmy.ca
        10·
        10 days ago

        Unless it’s a necessary service I would decline to use the service.

        Please name the service

      • communism@lemmy.ml
        2·
        10 days ago

        I had that happen once, but I found that it worked with duckduckgo’s email aliases forwarded to my own domain’s email.

      • catloaf@lemm.eeEnglish
        14·
        10 days ago

        It’s a lot of work to keep the spammers out and make sure gmail, etc. will accept your messages and not mark them as spam. A brand-new mail system with no history looks a lot like a new spam operation to them.

      • trailee@sh.itjust.works
        51·
        10 days ago

        Why have you never been able to do it? I set up a full mail system years ago on a Xen/Linux VPS with stuff like Postfix, maildrop, Courier IMAP, a custom set of MySQL tables for aliases and such, and at one point migrated my TLS from CACert to LetsEncrypt. I enjoyed some aspects of the huge pain in the ass that all of that was, and having it work nicely was great. Spinning up a new email alias was easy and free, so I created a new one for damn near every site I interacted with, which later turned into a form of lock in having to continue running my server.

        The continual server maintenance was a pain in the ass, requiring me to remember in substantial detail how it all worked so that I could appropriately integrate new things I had to learn like SPF and DMARC. I’m glad to have had some detailed sysadmin experience, but I was so glad in the end to finally migrate away from all that and just pay Fastmail instead.

        I still have nearly the same flexibility with Fastmail and my custom domains, but they’re the ones that need to do all the maintenance. I can’t scale across unlimited domains for the same zero marginal cost, but I can make it work for a reasonable price with a few domains and scale arbitrarily within that. I’m sure there are other hosts out there that do a similarly good job, and Fastmail hasn’t been without its own troubles, but it’s been a net win for me.

        I don’t recommend running your own server. I won’t do it again. I do recommend building an army of custom aliases all at your own custom domain(s).