One of my new friends is/was a cop. Just found out about it. I genuinely believe ACAB, and this news has me conflicted because my new friend seems really cool and super nice. I don’t know him super well yet, though. He’s a big part of this new friend group and I don’t know how to process this and how to deal with the fact he’s a cop.

I don’t want to look past the fact he’s a cop, but I want to stay his friend and stay in this friend group.

Any advice for dealing with this shit?

I can’t talk to my therapist about it until Thursday.

  • TʜᴇʀᴀᴘʏGⒶʀʏ@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 day ago

    My brother is a cop, and we’re still close despite a mutual understanding that we will become lethal opponents should relevant violence break out in our area (civil war/insurrection/significant rioting).

    I think our willingness to do that allows us to overlook our differences until that situation were to arise. I imagine we’d both see that as a defining opportunity for the other to ‘defect’ and, until then, we can look past associating with a BagGuy^TM